Im confused about what to do.?

okay so im 14 and im going into freshman year. theres these two guys and i like both of them! the first one ive been talking to him for like a year. hes pretty cute and he is so so sweet. i think he likes me but its been like a year and we still havnt gone on a date or anything. he cycles and plays guitar and i really like his taste in music, but the thing is we havnt actually met in person. ik hes ok cuz hes one of my friends church friends. and the only thing i dnt like is hes kinda shy, like not outgoing, or like ,manly haha. the other guy ive met and his really funny and charming and hot. but i thouight he just liked me for my body so i asked him. and he sent me like a 4 paged txtthat said like- no your smart funny nice, your eyes sparkle, and when you smile i cant help but smile back, ect ect. all this really really sweet stuff. but we talked for a long time, and he and his ex had just broken up w his girlfriend, so he forwarded me some of the messages, and he was like really mean to her. he was like cussing and and called her a slut! i mean, she was also mean but still. other than that i really like him. sorry this is so long! hahabut what do i do?